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Okay here's the place where I can answer those communciation type burning questions that this site has left unanswered... If there's a question you would like answered simply click here to submit it to me.
When you look into his eyes and see that sparkle, does it matter that he's str8?
Hmmm.. tricky one. That sparkle... it's certainly attractive isn't it... eyes do it *every* time. I have to say, that I believe that if things are intended to happen they will do... not necessarily instantly but in time, be patient. It happens to the least likely people, the one's you never think you will go out with, maybe in some cases people who identify as being hetereosexual (or indeed gay) but have never had a homosexual (or indeed heterosexual) experience. I always listen carefully to my isntincts as opposed to the bit of me that interprets everything in a "they like you" sort of fashion. Best of luck! (Answered 07th October 1999)
We know what you're looking for in a prospective partner. What would you say you offered in return?
Well I did say it was a good one, and wanted a day or so to think it over. I've had a lot of thoughts in the day... At times I've though oh yes "that" (whatever it may be) and other times I'm not so sure. I suppose there's things that I've given in relationships previously and things that I would still like to give... I suppose anyone I've been going out with on a serious basis or any of my close friends will tell you that I have two "me's" - there's the public projection and the me that's let out to a smaller number of really, really close friends. I don't know if any of them have worked out there's a bit of me that none of them have seen and I wonder if anyone ever will. I suppose I'm saying that I'll offer that bit of me to someone sometime in the future. I guess saying that sounds really crap - but lets be honest I'm not close to being the worlds richest person - I can't offer them what I don't have. I'm not the worlds luckiest person, and my partners and friends have had to suffer some of the worst series of luck I think most people have known... But I try and make things work, I try and talk about things and learn from my mistakes because I don't claim to be perfect. I'd like to think that I make the little things count, things no-one else would maybe realise - I put a lot of thought into things to try and make them really personal and special. I try and help people (and not just in the conventional sense) to use their talents and abilities, and not just sit back and think "oh I wish I could do that". So what does it all matter 'cause surely you do that for everyone? Yeah well maybe.. except a partner to me is a friend.. that's how it always starts usually... someone you've known and I'm intensively loyal and protective to my friends. But a partner? Well it's not happened a lot but a *true* partner is different - the bond just can't be described - it's like you are the same person, you miss each other every second you are apart, and every moment you are together is special. There's hundreds of examples: you finish each others sentences, but ultimately I would put my life on the line for that person. (Answered 15th August 1999)
Will you ever date a chubbie like me? [24 stone-aaagghh!!] I'm a HUGE fan of most cute boybands - i.e. Boyzone; Westlife; A1.
To be perfectly frank: who knows? As my friends will testify (and as mentioned in an earlier question) I don't have a type - and I think most of my friends have been genuinely surprised by the people I go out with because there's no rhyme or reason (exceot for them all perhaps being b@stards with a few exceptions!). I don't rule anyone out, I don't rule anyone in (except Stephen Gately but that's different) it's how you get on when you meet that's what counts. (Answered 01st August 1999)
What type of guys do you like as this is not on your website?
What type of people do I go for? Hmm... tricky as I suppose I don't really have a "type" as such.. I suppose if I'm trying to identify characteristics I find attractive :
- eyes (you know the type that when you get looked at you just melt) are really important
- short/shaved or floppy hair is also cute
- possibly a little athletic/sporty but let's not overdo that shall we?
And if we're moving this beyond sexually and into relationships then:
- the presence and ability to use your brain cells is also a prerequisite
- my more successful relationships tend to be with people in their late 20s early 30s
- there needs to be a bit of a grown up attitude to things but then it's fun to act like a 12 year old at times
- there's got to be some areas of interest in common but not everything
- an appreciation of boybands could aid your long-term sanity
- the ability to give each other space and breathing room when needed
- did I mention I need romance? Nights in on the sofa watching films, meals, you know...
Are you single? And if so why?
I think this has been covered on the profile page, but yes to the first question. As for why, I suppose that's for everyone else to answer... (Answered 17th July)
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